Let us take a discussion matang dari segi pemikiran dan perlakuan. matang dari segi pemikiran dan perlakuan mean you can deal with different people with different manners with different way of thinking. Well, you know your friend very well thus you should understand how you should behave when you are with them. Still, certain behaviors are only valid for certain situations. IF you are in a serious meeting, should you pull out a stupid joke when everybody was in stress? That is a bad move. Plus, when having a discussion, let you be the one who give the ideas, support ideas and give credits to people who give efforts. Ideas must satisfy all people, even, not all people will satisfy or should I say, you cannot satisfy all people. But let majority will happy with it. Then, your responsibility is done there. And when generating new ideas, do not be judgemental and reject ideas immediately. Look for options, go with the flow, let people comfortable to express the idea. Any irrelevant ideas must be rejected fairly and all people will accept the rejection. The same thing goes to behaving among friends. Some friends cannot accept childish behaviors. I suggest you could treat people fairly but react to them differently. Humans are complicated, but we could do what only we could to make people satisfy.
You could be happy all the time, keep the handsome smile on your face and motivate people to do their best and listen to people problem and try to help them as much as you could. Everybody is kind, deep in their heart and we as a positive person must influence people to do their best, discover their talent and support them as long it does no violate Al-Quran and As-Sunnah. Supporting ideas and action must be according to our religion teaching. Be kind, reduce jealousy, avoid all mazmumah values and embrace mahmudah values. And the most important, make sure you can mingle with different people with different background. Then you can join them and spread the beauty of Islamic teaching, regardless muslim or non-muslim. At least you show to them how good a muslim is and how beautiful Islam is. This can be considered as a da'wah from you to others too, if you think you are not capable to follow tabligh program.
More talk about ideas, less talk about people. You still can have your own perception on a person, but keep that in you and you only. If we keep talking about people, we are no different than other small-minded people. As long they are nice to you and others, I would be nice to him/her too.
May be i talk too much, but if I'm there, I would be really glad to help you with your situation.
Sorry for the long post. :P
You could be happy all the time, keep the handsome smile on your face and motivate people to do their best and listen to people problem and try to help them as much as you could. Everybody is kind, deep in their heart and we as a positive person must influence people to do their best, discover their talent and support them as long it does no violate Al-Quran and As-Sunnah. Supporting ideas and action must be according to our religion teaching. Be kind, reduce jealousy, avoid all mazmumah values and embrace mahmudah values. And the most important, make sure you can mingle with different people with different background. Then you can join them and spread the beauty of Islamic teaching, regardless muslim or non-muslim. At least you show to them how good a muslim is and how beautiful Islam is. This can be considered as a da'wah from you to others too, if you think you are not capable to follow tabligh program.
More talk about ideas, less talk about people. You still can have your own perception on a person, but keep that in you and you only. If we keep talking about people, we are no different than other small-minded people. As long they are nice to you and others, I would be nice to him/her too.
May be i talk too much, but if I'm there, I would be really glad to help you with your situation.
Sorry for the long post. :P
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